I Hope One Day Homosexuality Can Be Decriminalised In Nigeria – Ex Presidential Spokesperson Doyin Okupe’s Son, Bolu Says

I Hope One Day Homosexuality Can Be Decriminalised In Nigeria – Ex Presidential Spokesperson Doyin Okupe’s Son, Bolu Says

Bolu Okupe: I Hope One Day Homosexuality Can Be Decriminalised In Nigeria.

Bolu Okupe, one of the sons of ex presidential spokesperson Doyin Okupe’s son has said that he hopes homosexuality can be decriminalised in Nigeria.

He said this in a new interview where he also disclosed that he knew he was gay at the age of 10. He revealed that he didn’t intentionally choose the lifestyle of being a gay because he knows he will be ridiculed and shamed by the society.

According to him, he was born this way. He isn’t trying to harm anyone and there is no agenda. He simply just want to exist and be entitled to the same basic human rights as everyone else.

Doyin Okupe's Son
Doyin Okupe’s son

Read excerpts from his interview below:

From the age of 10 or 11 I knew I was different, and if you speak to more people in the LGBTQ community they will tell you the same thing, it starts around pre-puberty years. We would progress more as a society if we spoke more to each other and judged less. If people take time to have conversations with people of the LGBT community and understand their point of view and perspectives, you will realise that most of us are really not trying to harm anyone and there is no “agenda.” We simply just want to exist and be entitled to the same basic human rights as everyone else.

I did not choose to be gay. No one chooses their sexual orientation. The same way people do not choose to be straight, you just know.

On his father’s Facebook posts in which he (Doyin) expressed strong belief that he will reconsider his sexual orientation as a gay someday, Bolu said:

Sexual orientation is not something that one can “reconsider”. This is the way I am and it is the way I have always been and will always be. I and many others in the LGBTQ (Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer) community were born the way we are, many may not understand this but stop and think for a second, why would we intentionally choose this lifestyle when we know that we will be ridiculed and shamed by society? I do hope that one day we can, as Nigerians and Africans, get to the point where we love and accept each other regardless of things such as sexual orientation.

I will just say that I love and appreciate every one of my family members, my father inclusive, because if not for him, I definitely would not be able to live the life that I currently live. So, I will never utter anything disrespectful (to him) on any platform. With regard to homosexuality being anti-Christ, this is not incorrect, as many have pointed out to me. It is clearly forbidden in the Bible; however, I would like to also mention that there are a lot of things that are also forbidden in the Bible that many Christians partake in. So, it confuses me why people of the Christian religion feel like they can pick and choose what to be morally superior about.

On coming out at as gay even with his father’s political inclination, he said:

I do not have any regrets about coming out. Whether people like it or not, it (the law) has started a discussion on this topic within the Nigerian atmosphere that was necessary. Being gay is not “Western” or “European.” There are many gay people in Nigeria, they just do not have the ability to openly live that way due to fear of criticism and judgments similar to the reactions that I received. I hope one day homosexuality can be decriminalised in Nigeria. However, I know that we have a long way to go before we get there.

My orientation can never change. As I stated before, if I was still living in Nigeria I would likely be living the same way all the millions of gay men there live, in secrecy. What happens in Nigeria is that many gay men lead a double life and this is not a life that I want for myself. Our time on this earth is short and limited and you don’t want to waste it living a lie or pretending to be something that you are not. There are also many Nigerian women who are married to gay men and basically their whole lives and marriages are a complete sham. Some know, some don’t, but I would never be able to do that to another human.

Doyin Okupe's Son
Doyin Okupe’s son declaring he’s gay

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